Turds need to be flushed

 Ran the turd into a corner.

The trauma and stress that I experienced caused by this little shit bag named Ed Dellatore was absolutely horrendous.  Nothing happened to him legally because of the timeframe but by me coming forward & repeatedly sharing my story, I ran the little #mofo into a corner.  

Keep the garbage hidden and out of sight.  Thank you NYPD for keeping this shitbag hidden. Let him retire and just fade away.

Turds get flushed.

Continued failures of municipalities

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I thought I was dreaming

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Waiting

I waited like a kid on Christmas Eve for an apology that never came. 

Wrong doings that were never amended for...

Everyone makes mistakes because we're human beings who often times don't think before we act. When you have the opportunity to correct your errors, you should do so so it will clear your conscious. 

Love this beat!

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People who provoke for physical reactions

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I #useta

I used to always worry about everyone else and their battles and forget about me.
Not anymore!

The last fourteen years I've shared my life  through the lenses of a man who lives in a fantasy world. Sounds like our current White House administration! I live in the real world so I buckled up and held on  tight while I shared my husband's elephant unicorn world. 
I'm a very real no bullshit person and I use fineness when dealing with morons and keep my distance from them.
But marrying someone who has lied to you on so many different occasions from the beginning...becomes a challenge.
This is my story, this one anyways...
We met after I returned from a 90 day leave with pay. I had enough T&L to  do that. See, good things happen when you show up. Ok so when I return to my job at 100 Gold St. NYC, I'm sitting in my #cuboff my word cubicle/office and I hear this insanely loud noise. I'm thinking it's an explosion above my head! I kid you not! So I go to investigate and I see these construction workers walking towards the stairway to exit. This was the 9th floor, top floor. So I asked the last two going out & I asked "Are you guys making all that noise on the roof?" So the one black guy says yeah and the white guy says "We're updating the buildings heat and AC." So then my investigation  was over. I returned to my #cuboff and finished my workday.

My Southern roots!

I was taught to deny my ethnicity #sadright 

My step Aunt's told me to say "if anyone asks why you're so dark, you tell them your Southern Italian!! 

I can't make this stuff up! 

Yeah, my Aunt Dora and Aunt Ida were my stepdads Aunts. They would babysit us often. We even lived with them for a little bit while my Mother was in physical rehabilitation after her brain tumor surgery. 

Ah, nothing like teaching a 5 year old to lie about who she really is so the neighbors won't gossip about the little #darkie as I was called. 

Oh the stories! I have so many!

Teaching your children the correct way to behave and interact with others.

I love these videos where a parent teaches their child the correct way. 

I grew up being bullied & being called the "S" word and the "N" word.

It did bother me growing up but even then I knew these kids were idiots and that was there problem, not mine.

Plus I looked beyond the local hangout area and at 15 I knew there were way better things to do then hangout & just stand around. 

I had many fist fights because of being picked on. Name calling was one thing, but if your hands went up it was on & popping. 

Girls would scratch & I'd be throwing right & left hooks & going for the midline body area to knock em down!  LOL

Where I grew up back in the 70's my old neighborhood was predominantly Italians, Irish, German & West Indians & Puerto Rican & Dominicians. 

It was all good & I have good memories, except for the fighting because that's not who I've ever been but unfortunately, people will provoke you & bring you to their sewer level mentality. 

More to follow.

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Nothing stays hidden

Secrets don't stay hidden

They do for a minute, just not forever.

Secrets you keep will disrupt your sleep...

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New York❤🙌🏽🍎

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Don't fear those who stood up to you

We all have skeletons in our closest. My skeletons are my transgressions against people who I've hurt, never with intent or knowingly. calculated and 

We're human and have many faults. When it comes to affairs of the heart, that's a different story with a power of its own.  The same rules apply. 

The hurt that I've others was

The one's who mattered most...

Where the people you spent the most time with throughout the years.

Time spent together adds up, even if it was brief, the years still add up. 

Human nature and behavior patterns can either work well together or work against us if we make moves not considering those around us. 

When they don't work, it's often due to poor communication where as one party doesn't hear the message the other party is conveying. 

Don't Trust A Liar

Lying is a mental health disorder and many people suffer terribly because of their delusional status. 

When the individual feels cornered or if he's been accused of sexual assault, he will deny it till he dies.

But you see that's where voice inflection experts can scientifically confirm when a person lies by their tone and also their questions of concern to party they "alledge" not knowing. 

So sorry for your misgivings.

Wait and see how your fate rules going forward by repeating this denial.

Please stop shadowing me. Thank you. 

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Very fitting and so true.